°•What is the Sexual Instinct? •°
Written from the perspective of a 794 SX SP... Chanti
Need to be chosen or desired by a mate
Personality & talents can be used as a tool to support the SX instinct
Broadcasting a distinct flavor, attracting and repelling in the process.
Self Fascination, very aware of your own attraction game. Constantly working on their display, which is SACRED to them, they take it very seriously
Focus is on interpersonal relations, tension, intensity & chemistry
Risky, drastic life choices to follow focus of energy & obsession (could be a partner, passion or even an idea).
They like to ride the energy waves in life, when things are too stable they can become Restless & seek INTENSITY. Like an *insatiable pit of despair*
Testing BOUNDARIES, provoke through throwing out hooks to see what will happen, especially when there is little tension in the air
Very focused on the object of desire. They will have tunnel vision, most likely ignoring less desirable traits and idealizing them. Making them better than they actually are.
💀•°DARKSIDE of the SX INSTINCT°•💀
Sexual instinct seek INTENSITY, CONSUMMATION, ALIVENESS, DEATH, RENEWAL through *merging* with something else.
This can mean that they follow their passions & inspirations, and grow a lot during life
But they also become Restless, creating unnecessary tension, jealousy, competitiveness, burning bridges, likely destroying everything they created through impulsive escalations.
There is a FEAR of being undesirable, sexually overlooked & uninteresting so they will make themselves into the ultimate object of desire. Which can make them lose touch with themselves as a person.
Not being wanted is a fundamental ego threat and they will try to find new crafty ways of getting the attention of their mate, by throwing out new hooks to get the right kind of gaze & adoration. Which can become an unhealthy obsession.
They have a craving, a hunger, like an intense focus, like a predator searching for their prey. They are constantly craving that dopamine hit... It can become addicting like a drug. Therefore their object of desire is so important, it creates the belief that another person is the ‘key’ or the 'ANTIDOTE' for their self worth & the feeling of aliveness.
When they don't get this INTENSITY from their person they will find this in substances or other risky lifestyle choices just to feel alive.
Sexual types can become slaves to their object of desire and can get stuck in toxic, unhealthy habits and relationships. Giving away their autonomy which Will happens through dissolving psychological boundaries
